UNeymar: Indlela Eya Ebholeni kanye Nenganekwane Yezindaba Zothando
Ungumntwana ohlakaniphile webhola likanobhutshuzwayo laseBrazil, uNeymar, futhi eneminyaka engama-30 ubudala, ungumdansi we-samba enkundleni futhi uyingcweti yokuthandana. Unqobe abalandeli ngamakhono akhe amahle futhi washaqisa umhlaba ngomlando wakhe wothando omangalisayo. Engqondweni kaNeymar, ingabe ibhola likanobhutshuzwayo noma ubuhle kubaluleke kakhulu?
1. Isiphiwo, Ukuzalwa Kwenkanyezi Enkulu
Ngomhlaka-5 kuNhlolanja 1992, uNeymar wazalelwa eMogi das Cruzes, enye yezindawo okwazalelwa kuzo ibhola laseBrazil. Uyise, owayengumdlali webhola, wayengumqeqeshi okhuthazayo kaNeymar kusukela esemncane, edlulisela ulwazi lwakhe namakhono akhe endodaneni yakhe. UNeymar wathola imfundo ecebile kakhulu yebhola ezweni laseBrazil elithanda ibhola. Kusukela esemncane, wayedlala ibhola emigwaqweni, ebonisa amakhono amangalisayo, ehlala edlula kalula abaphikisi bakhe izikhathi eziningana ngobukhulu bakhe, kwathi eneminyaka eyisithupha, uNeymar wabonwa ngumqeqeshi weqembu elingafundile futhi waqashwa ukuqala ukuqeqeshwa.
UNeymar udlala ibhola ku-Inkundla yebhola
Eqenjini labaqalayo, washeshe waba yinkanyezi entsha ekhazimulayo. Naphezu kobukhulu bakhe obuncane, uNeymar wabonisa isivinini esimangalisayo, ukushesha, kanye namandla okuqhuma. Ehlala ekwazi ukukhombisa ikhono elimangalisayo lomuntu ngamunye ezindaweni ezixineneyo, wamangaza abaqeqeshi bakhe futhi wamemezela ukuvela kwenkanyezi. Ngo-2003, eneminyaka eyi-11, uNeymar waqala ngokusemthethweni umsebenzi wakhe wobungcweti ngokujoyina iqembu lentsha lama-giants aseBrazil iSantos. Ngokungafani namaqembu abaqalayo, amakilabhu ochwepheshe anikeza ukuqeqeshwa okuhlelekile nokuqinile, okunikeza uNeymar ithuba lokuthuthukisa amakhono akhe ebhola. Ekhempini yentsha yaseSantos, uNeymar waqhubeka nokwenza kahle. Ungumdlali osheshayo onekhono elihle lokujika nokunqamula ibhola. Esekelwa yithalente lakhe, uNeymar washeshe waba yinkanyezi ephambili nenombolo yokuqala eqenjini lentsha, kwathi eneminyaka eyi-17, wadlala okokuqala eqenjini lokuqala eSantos, eshaya amagoli angu-13 amangalisayo phakathi nesizini. Iqiniso lokuthi umuntu oneminyaka eyi-17 ubudala angenza kahle kangaka eqenjini eliphezulu lamemezela ukuvela kwenkanyezi.
Futhi uNeymar wenza lokho kanye, waba ngumdlali omusha wonyaka weligi. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, le nkanyezi yaseBrazil ibilokhu izenzela igama emhlabeni webhola. Egqoke ijezi lenombolo 11, uletha ugqozi namandla angapheli eqenjini ngejubane lakhe elisheshayo namakhono amaningi. Evame ukukhiqiza amagoli amahle kakhulu futhi emangaza izixuku, uNeymar washaya amagoli angu-42 ngesizini eyodwa ngo-2010 eneminyaka engu-18 ukusiza iSantos ukuthi iwine isicoco seligi yesifundazwe. Waphinde wawina umdlali ongcono kakhulu wonyaka kanye neminye imiklomelo ebalulekile, isikhathi sodumo, futhi waba ngumdlali ovelele wasekhaya waseBrazil. Ngo-2013, uNeymar wajoyina izinkunzi zaseLa Liga iBarcelona ngemali yokudlulisela ephule irekhodi engu-€57 million. EBarcelona kaMessi, uNeymar washeshe wajoyina iqembu, wakha unxantathu wensimbi “we-MSN” noMessi noSuárez. Ngesikhathi sakhe eBarcelona, uNeymar wadlala kahle futhi waba yingxenye ebalulekile yokuhlasela kweqembu. Wagqoka ijezi lenombolo 11 futhi wahola iqembu ukuthi liwine iLa Liga kanye neChampions League kabili.
Ikakhulukazi kowamanqamu weChampions League, uNeymar washaya igoli elibalulekile ukusiza iBarcelona inqobe iJuventus ngo 3-1 futhi iwine isicoco seChampions League. Ngo-2017, uNeymar wajoyina izinkunzi zaseFrance zeLigue 1 iParis Saint-Germain ngemali yokudlulisela engu-€222 million, wabeka irekhodi elisha lomhlaba lokudlulisela ibhola. Kuzinkunzi zeLigue 1, uNeymar waqhubeka nokukhombisa ikhono elihle kakhulu lokuhlasela futhi, kanye noMbappé, wayaziwa njengobudlelwano obunamandla kakhulu bokuhlasela emhlabeni namuhla. UNeymar wahlonishwa njengoMVP weLigue 1 iminyaka emibili ilandelana futhi wayephakathi kwenhliziyo yokugijima kobuqhawe eParis. Ikhono lakhe elihle kakhulu lomuntu ngamunye likhumbuza abadlali abakhulu emlandweni webhola laseBrazil, uPelé noRonaldo. Namuhla, uNeymar ungomunye wabadlali abaphambili emhlabeni, isici esiyinhloko kanye nomholi emaqenjini noma ngabe udlala kuphi. Unqobe umhlaba webhola ngethalente lakhe. KuNeymar, inkundla yebhola ifana negceke lakhe, isiteji sokuba abonise ithalente lakhe. Amehlo abantu agxile ekukhanyeni kwaleli gugu laseBrazil.
2. Okungokomzwelo Nokungokwenganekwane
Ngaphezu kwempumelelo yakhe yebhola, uNeymar ungumdlali ohlonishwayo empilweni yakhe. Eneminyaka engu-17 ubudala, uNeymar wayesengumfundi ojwayelekile wesikole samabanga aphezulu, kodwa wayesevele ezwe uthando lwakhe lokuqala. Wayenobudlelwano nomngane omkhulu kadadewabo, uKarolina, futhi wakhulelwa. Kumntwana oneminyaka engu-17 ubudala, lokhu kwakuyinselele enkulu impela. Kodwa-ke, uNeymar akazange abalekele umthwalo wakhe wemfanelo futhi wazama konke okusemandleni akhe ukulungisa izinto ngokukhokhela uKarolina imali yesondlo sengane yanyanga zonke. Lesi sigameko senza uNeymar wavuthwa kakhulu futhi waqaphela ubudlelwano bakhe besikhathi esizayo. Kodwa-ke, njengoba udumo lwakhe lukhula, uNeymar wabonakala ephishekela ubuhle kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili. Usethandane obala nezinkanyezi eziningana zemibukiso efana namamodeli nabadlali. Ngayinye yalezi zintombi inomzimba oshisayo nokubukeka okukhangayo, okuhambisana kahle nobuhle bukaNeymar. Kodwa ngokumangazayo, ubudlelwano bukaNeymar nazo zonke lezi zintombi abuzange buhlale isikhathi eside kakhulu—obunye buhlale izinyanga ezimbalwa kuphela, kanti obunye baphela ngisho nangemva kwamasonto ambalwa nje.
Kubonakala sengathi kuNeymar, babemane nje beyizinto ezintsha zesikhashana, futhi wayefuna injabulo nenjabulo kuphela, engazibophezeli ngempela kuzo. Ngo-2011, uNeymar waqala ubudlelwano obuzinzile nomodeli we-supermodel uBruna Marquez, okwakuwubudlelwano bakhe obuhlala isikhathi eside. Laba bobabili babevame ukukhombisa uthando lwabo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana futhi babonakala bemnandi. Kodwa-ke, ubudlelwano budlule nasekuhlukaneni okuningi nasekubuyisaneni; uNeymar noBruna babenezingxabano eziningi nokuhlukana ngenxa yokungaqondani okuncane kodwa kamuva bahlangana ngokuphindaphindiwe. Kuze kube ngu-2018, uNeymar noBruna bamemezela ngokusemthethweni ukuhlukana kwabo, baqeda ubudlelwano obabuhlale iminyaka eyisikhombisa. Lobu budlelwano babubhekwa njengesahluko esizinzile kakhulu empilweni yothando lukaNeymar. Ngemva kokuhlukana, uNeymar wabuyela empilweni yakhe yokungashadi. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, ube nezintombi eziningana, okuhlanganisa amamodeli nabadlali. Ngokungafani nesikhathi esidlule, uNeymar ubonakala ekhululekile, engasadlali ngemizwa njengoba efisa. Kodwa noma kunjalo, isifiso sikaNeymar sokuba nomngane asibonakali saneliswa.
Ngenxa yalokho, ubudlelwano bakhe nabathandi abasha bushintsha njalo, yize buhlala isikhathi eside. Kulo nyaka, intombi kaNeymar yamanje, egama layo linguBruna, imemezele ukuthi ikhulelwe. Ukuthi lobu budlelwano bungayibamba ngempela inhliziyo kaNeymar kusazobonakala. Phela, uNeymar ubelokhu “engumdlali” onolwazi uma kukhulunywa ngobudlelwano.
3. Umbuzo Wokugcina
Ingabe ubona uNeymar “njengomdansi wokugcina we-samba” noma “umphathi womdlalo”? Ngombono wami, uNeymar ngokungangabazeki uyingcweti yobuciko bakhe ezweni lebhola lanamuhla, futhi ikhono lakhe lomuntu siqu liyamangalisa. Kodwa-ke, futhi ungumuntu othanda kakhulu uthando futhi waziwa ukuthi ube nezindaba eziningi. Umbuzo wangempela, nokho, uwukuthi: Singobani thina ukuba sahlulele indlela yokuphila yomunye umuntu? Wonke umuntu unelungelo lokuzikhethela impilo yakhe. Uma sidumele ngoNeymar, kungcono sibhekise ukunaka kwethu kulabo abadinga ukunakekelwa kakhulu. Ukugxeka uNeymar kukhombisa nokucwasa kwethu.
Kungenxa yokuthi uyinkanyezi ukuthi abantu banemibono eqine kangaka ngokuziphatha kwakhe. Kodwa-ke, ingabe abantu abavamile abanazo izinkinga nobuthakathaka obufanayo? Singobani thina ukuba sigxeke abanye? Uma simkhathalela ngempela uNeymar, kungcono simthonye ngomusa oqotho esikhundleni sokumsola ngonya. Ukukhuthaza umuntu ngemfudumalo kuvame ukusebenza kangcono kunokhahlo.
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