Izibonelelo zabantwana zokudlala ibhola ekhatywayo

U-Shankly, omnye wabaqeqeshi abakhulu kwimbali yeLiverpool, wathi: "Ibhola lebhola alinanto yakwenza nobomi nokufa, kodwa ngaphaya kobomi nokufa", ukuhamba kwexesha, izinto zihluke, kodwa eli lizwi lobulumko liye lankcenkceshelwa entliziyweni, mhlawumbi eli lihlabathi elinemibala yebhola ekhatywayo. Ibhola ekhatywayo ifundisa abantwana ngaphezu kokuba sisazi!

Okokuqala, fundisa abantwana ukuba bawuqonde umoya wezemidlalo

Umoya webhola ekhatywayo ngumoya weqela, iyunithi yeqela ukuba kukho iqela elilungileyo kunye nomoya omhle weqela, kuya kufana nentlawulo yophondo, ukukhuthaza abantu phezulu, ukukhuthaza ilungu ngalinye leqela ukuba liqhubele phambili, lizama ukuba ngowokuqala, ukusekwa kwemoya epholileyo yokhuphiswano. Iqela umoya kwakhona iyunithi umanyano lweqela iflegi, ukuba akukho umanyano, injongo icacile, imilo ehlangeneyo ayikho synergy, kodwa unokuhlala kuphela entabeni ubuncwane ukubuya ulambatha. Amafu amandulo: izinto ziqokelelene, abantu bahlulwa bangamaqela. Iyunithi yokubambisana kweqela kunye nomoya omhle weqela lifana neflegi ephezulu ephaphazelayo, ibiza onke amalungu eqela ngokuqonda aqokelele phantsi kweflegi, ukuze afezekise injongo efanayo yeqela kunye nokusebenza nzima!
Ibhola ekhatywayo iyakufundisa abantwana ukuthobela imithetho yomdlalo nokuthobela abaqeqeshi noosompempe. Ukuphumelela okanye ukulahlekelwa yinto yesibini ekwazini umoya wezemidlalo kunye nokufunda ukuhlangabezana nayo yonke imiceli mngeni ngokuqinisekileyo ngoyena mntu uphumeleleyo. Enyanisweni, asilindelanga ukuba abantwana bafezeke okanye baphumelele imidlalo, kodwa kunokuba bafikelele kumandla abo apheleleyo ngoqeqesho. Qonda umahluko phakathi “kokudlala nje” kunye “nokwenza konke okusemandleni abo”.

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Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba nomonde

Umonde asikokuba nomonde, ukungakruquki, nokukwazi ukunyamezela into enokukruqula nokukruqulayo. Ibhola ekhatywayo ngomnye weyona midlalo ivavanya umonde, nofundisa abantwana ukuba ukubaleka ngakunye, ukubaleka ngakunye, ibhola ngalinye alikhokelele ekufumaneni amanqaku. Kodwa kuya kufuneka ulungele yonke into ngaphambi kokuba uphumelele ukuphumelela!

Okwesithathu, fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba ahloniphe kwaye ajamelane nokuphumelela kunye nokulahlekelwa

Kwibala lebhola ekhatywayo, abantwana baya kudibana nabachasi abohlukeneyo, baya kungqubana nobomi obahlukeneyo, ukuze bazazi ngcono kwaye bazivavanye. Okwesibini, akwanelanga ukuba abantwana bafumane amava okuphumelela kunye nokuphulukana nje nebhola ekhatywayo, indlela yokuphumelela kunye nokuphulukana nokulunga yinto ekufuneka abantwana bayifundile. Akukho mntu uthanda imvakalelo yokuphulukana nomdlalo, kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu, indlela yokuphulukana nobabalo. Kudla ngokuba nzima ukufunda nantoni na xa siphumelele, kwaye xa soyisiwe, sinokuhlala sicinga ngendlela yokwenza ngcono kwixesha elizayo.

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Okwesine, fundisa abantwana indlela yokunxibelelana

Unxibelelwano yinkqubo yokudlulisa nokubuyisela iingcinga neemvakalelo phakathi kwabantu, phakathi kwabantu namaqela, ukuze kufikelelwe kwisivumelwano ngeengcinga neemvakalelo ezigudileyo. Ibhola ekhatywayo yeyona ixhomekeke kwimidlalo edibeneyo, kufuneka unxibelelane nomqeqeshi, kunye noogxa bakho, kunye nokuba ujongane njani nosompempe. Ibala lebhola ekhatywayo ngokungathi luluntu lobomi, uthembele kumntu omiselwe ukuba angancumi kude kube sekupheleni.

Okwesihlanu, fundisa abantwana ukuba babambelele elukholweni

Babambelele kwiinkolelo zabo kunye nendlela yokujongana nabantu kunye neenkolelo. Iinkolelo ngabantu ekuqondeni okuthile ngesiseko senkcazo-bungcali ethile, imfundiso kunye nemigaqo ebanjwe yingcamango engagungqiyo kunye nokukholelwa okunyanisekileyo kunye nokuphunyezwa okuzinzile kwesimo sengqondo. Ibhola ekhatywayo yenza umntwana aqonde ukuba ukuba uzibophelele, ngoko kubaluleke kakhulu ukuya kuzo zonke izenzo. Akunjalo nje ngenxa yokuba sihlawule ezi nkqubo, kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu: ukunyamezela kunye nokugxila kumntwana sisifundo esibaluleke kakhulu ebomini bakhe.

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Fundisa umntwana wakho ukusebenzisana

Intsebenziswano ngumoya wokuzithandela wentsebenziswano nomgudu obonakalayo xa iqela liphumeza umsitho othile. Izakhono zokupasa kunye nokubaleka zebhola ekhatywayo zivumela abantwana ukuba baqonde nzulu ukubaluleka kwentsebenziswano. Akukho mpumelelo inokufumaneka ngaphandle kwentsebenziswano esebenzayo nesondeleleneyo.

Vumela abantwana bathi ndlela-ntle kwimikhwa emibi

Ibhola ekhatywayo iqhelisela yonke imiba yesakhono somntwana wakho, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, iyamvumela ukuba alisebenzise kangangoko ixesha lakhe lokuphumla. Xa umntwana wakho engenanto yakwenza, ukujonga kumdlalo akuyeki ukuhamba, ibhola ekhatywayo iya kuba yeyona nto ilungileyo "yoxolelaniso" ebomini.

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Esibhozo, phucula ingqiqo yomntwana

Ukuqonda kubhekiselele kubuchule bokungena kwizinto okanye iingxaki, kukukwazi ukumisela ngokuchanekileyo undoqo womntu ngokusebenzisa i-surface phenomena. Ngamazwi kaFreud, ingqiqo kukutshintsha i-unconscious ibe yingqondo, kukufunda ukusebenzisa imigaqo kunye nemibono yengqondo ukushwankathela ukuziphatha komntu, into elula ukuyenza kukujonga amagama, ukujonga umbala. Enyanisweni, ukuqonda kuxutywe ngakumbi nokukwazi ukuhlalutya kunye nokugweba, kunokutshiwo ukuba ukuqonda bubuchule obubanzi. Kuqeqesho lwebhola ekhatywayo, abantwana baya kujolisa ingqalelo yabo kumaqhinga alungiselelwe ngumqeqeshi, umoya wabo wokukhuphisana, yaye baya kukhulisa ukuqina nokomelela kwabo emva kokuhlangabezana nemiqobo kunye nokusilela, ukuze bafunde ukungayeki.
Ibhola ekhatywayo ngowona mdlalo ubalaseleyo wokukhulisa ukuqonda kwezemidlalo kwabantwana, umdla kwezemidlalo, imikhwa yezemidlalo kunye nomgangatho wezemidlalo obanzi ngexesha elibalulekileyo lophuhliso, ibhola ekhatywayo inendima ebalulekileyo ekukhuleni kwabantwana.