Shankly, mumwe wevarairidzi vakuru munhoroondo yeLiverpool, akamboti: "Nhabvu haina chekuita nehupenyu nerufu, asi kupfuura hupenyu nerufu", nekufamba kwenguva, zvinhu zvakasiyana, asi chirevo ichi chakanyatsoiswa mumoyo, pamwe iyi ndiyo nyika ine mavara enhabvu. Nhabvu inodzidzisa vana zvakawanda kupfuura zvatinoziva!
Kutanga, dzidzisai vana kunzwisisa mweya wemitambo
Mweya wenhabvu mweya wechikwata, chikamu cheboka kana paine timu yakanaka uye mweya wechikwata wakanaka, zvichaita sekunge kurova kwehwamanda, kukurudzira vanhu kumusoro, kukurudzira nhengo yega yega yechikwata kuti ifambire mberi, ichiedza kuva yekutanga, kuumbwa kwemhepo yemakwikwi isina njodzi. Mweya wechikwata zvakare chikamu chekubatana kweboka remureza, kana pasina kubatana, chinangwa chakajeka, chimiro cheboka hachisi chekubatana, asiwo chinogona kugara pagomo repfuma chisina chinhu. Makore ekare: zvinhu zvakaunganidzwa, vanhu vakakamurwa kuita mapoka. Chikamu chekubatana kweboka uye mweya wechikwata wakanaka chakafanana nemureza unobhururuka wakakwirira, chinoshevedza nhengo yega yega yechikwata yakaungana nemaune pasi pemureza, kuitira kuzadzisa chinangwa chakafanana chechikwata uye kushanda nesimba!
Nhabvu ichadzidzisa vana kutevedzera mitemo yemutambo uye kuteerera varairidzi nevareferenzi. Kukunda kana kukundwa kunotevera kuziva mweya wekuva neunyanzvi mumitambo uye kudzidza kusangana nematambudziko ese zvakanaka ndiko kukunda chaiko. Kutaura zvazviri, hatitarisiri kuti vana vave vakakwana kana kuti vakunde mitambo, asi kuti vasvike pakukwanisa kwavo zvizere kuburikidza nekudzidziswa. Nzwisisa musiyano uripo pakati pe "kungotamba" uye "kuita nepavanogona napo".
Dzidzisa mwana wako mwoyo murefu
Mwoyo murefu hakusi kusashivirira, kusafinhwa, uye kukwanisa kutsungirira nechimwe chinhu chingave chinonetesa uye chinofinha. Nhabvu ndeimwe yemitambo inonyanya kuyedza kutsungirira, iyo inogona kudzidzisa vana kuti kumhanya kwese, dribble yega yega, kupfura kwese hakurevi kuti munhu anowana chibodzwa. Asi unofanirwa kugadzirira zvese izvi usati wabudirira kuti uhwine!
Chechitatu, dzidzisai mwana wenyu kuremekedza uye kutarisana nekukunda kana kukundwa
Munhandare yenhabvu, vana vachasangana nevavengi vakasiyana, vachasangana nehupenyu hwakasiyana, kuitira kuti vazvione zviri nani uye vazviongorore. Chechipiri, hazvina kukwana kuti vana vagone kukunda nekukundwa kubva munhabvu chete, nzira yekukunda nekukundwa zvakanaka ndiyo inofanira kudzidzwa nevana. Hapana anofarira kunzwa kwekukundwa mumutambo, asi chinonyanya kukosha, nzira yekukundwa zvakanaka. Kazhinji zvakaoma kudzidza chero chinhu kana takunda, uye patinokundwa, tinogona kugara tichifunga kuti tingaita sei zviri nani nguva inotevera.
Chechina, dzidzisa vana kutaurirana
Kutaurirana inzira yekutumira nekudzorera pfungwa nemanzwiro pakati pevanhu, pakati pevanhu nemapoka, kuitira kuti mubvumirane pane pfungwa nemanzwiro akapfava. Nhabvu inonyanya kuvimba nemitambo yeboka, unofanira kutaurirana nemurairidzi, nevamwe vatambi, uye kunyange maitiro ekubata nemutongi. Nhabvu sehupenyu hwenharaunda, vimba nemunhu akatarirwa kusanyemwerera kusvika kumagumo.
Chishanu, dzidzisai vana kunamatira pakutenda
Batisisa zvavanotenda uye maitiro avo ekubata nevanhu nezvitendero. Zvitendero vanhu vane kunzwisisa kwakati kwehwaro hwedzidziso, dzidziso nepfungwa dzakabatwa nepfungwa isingachinji uye kutenda kwechokwadi uye kuita kwakasimba kwemaitiro. Nhabvu inoita kuti mwana azive kuti kana azvipira, saka zvakakosha zvikuru kupinda mukudzidzira kwese. Kwete chete nekuti takabhadhara mapurogiramu aya, asi chinonyanya kukosha: kutsungirira nekutarisa kumwana chidzidzo chakakosha muhupenyu hwake.
Dzidzisa mwana wako kushanda pamwe chete
Kushanda pamwe chete mweya wekushandira pamwe nekuzvipira uye kushanda pamwe chete kunoonekwa kana timu yaita chiitiko chakagadzirirwa. Unyanzvi hwekupasa nekumhanya hwenhabvu hunoita kuti vana vanzwisise zvakadzama kukosha kwekushanda pamwe chete. Hapana kubudirira kunogona kuwanikwa pasina kushanda pamwe chete zvakanaka uye kwakabatana.
Rega vana vasiye tsika dzakaipa
Nhabvu inodzidzisa zvese zvine chekuita nekugona kwemwana wako, uye chinonyanya kukosha, inomubvumira kushandisa nguva yake yekuzorora zvakanaka. Kana mwana wako asina chekuita, kutarisa mutambo hakuregi, nhabvu ichave "nzira yekuyananisa" yakanakisisa muhupenyu.
Sere, vandudza kunzwisisa kwemwana
Kunzwisisa zvinoreva kugona kupinda muzvinhu kana matambudziko, ndiko kugona kuziva chokwadi chemunhu kuburikidza nezviitiko zviri pamusoro. Mumashoko aFreud, kunzwisisa kushandura kusaziva kuita kuziva, ndiko kudzidza kushandisa misimboti nemaonero epfungwa kupfupisa maitiro evanhu, chinhu chiri nyore kuita ndechekutarisa mazwi, kutarisa ruvara. Kutaura zvazviri, kunzwisisa kunosanganiswa nekugona kuongorora nekutonga, zvinogona kutaurwa kuti kunzwisisa kugona kwakakwana. Mukudzidziswa kwenhabvu, vana vachaisa pfungwa dzavo pamaitiro akarongwa nemurairidzi, mweya wavo wemakwikwi, uye vachakudziridza kusimba kwavo uye kushinga mushure mekusangana nematambudziko nekukundikana, kuitira kuti vagone kudzidza kusamborega.
Nhabvu ndiyo mutambo wakanakisa wekusimudzira ruzivo rwemitambo yevana, kufarira mitambo, tsika dzemitambo uye hunhu hwakakwana hwemitambo munguva yakakosha yekukura, nhabvu ine basa rakakosha mukukura kwevana.
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Nguva yekutumira: Nyamavhuvhu-30-2024











