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Mabhenefiti ekuti vana vatambe nhabvu

Shankly, mumwe wevarairidzi vakuru munhoroondo yeLiverpool, akamboti: "Nhabvu haina chekuita nehupenyu nerufu, asi kupfuura hupenyu nerufu", kufamba kwenguva, zvinhu zvakasiyana, asi kutaura uku kwakachenjera kwakadiridzwa mumoyo, zvichida iyi ndiyo nyika ine ruvara rwebhola. Nhabvu inodzidzisa vana zvakanyanya kupfuura zvatinoziva!

Kutanga, dzidzisa vana kunzwisisa mafungiro emitambo

Soccer spirit is a team spirit, chikwata cheboka kana paine chikwata chakanaka uye mweya wakanaka wechikwata, unenge wafanana nekuchaja nyanga, uchikurudzira vanhu kumusoro, kukurudzira nhengo yese yechikwata kuti ienderere mberi, ichivavarira kuve wekutanga, kuumbwa kwemhepo ine hunyoro yemakwikwi. Mudzimu wechikwata zvakare chikamu chekubatana kweboka remureza, kana pasina kubatana, chinangwa chakajeka, chimiro chemubatanidzwa hachisi chekubatana, asi zvakare chinogona kugara pagomo repfuma isina chinhu kudzoka. Makore akare: zvinhu zvakaungana, vanhu vakakamurwa kuita mapoka. Chikwata chekubatana kweboka uye mweya wakanaka wechikwata wakafanana nemureza unobhururuka, unodaidza nhengo yese yechikwata ichinyatsoungana pasi pemureza, kuitira kuti iwane chinangwa chakafanana chechikwata uye kushanda nesimba!
Nhabvu ichadzidzisa vana kutevedzera mitemo yemutambo uye kuteerera varairidzi nevatambi. Kuhwina kana kukundwa chinhu chechipiri pakuziva mweya wekutamba uye kudzidza kusangana nematambudziko ese zvakanaka ndiye mukundi chaiye. Muchokwadi, hatitarisire kuti vana vangave vakakwana kana kuhwina mitambo, asi kuti vasvike pakugona kwavo kuzere kuburikidza nekudzidziswa. Nzwisisa musiyano uripo pakati pe "kungotamba" uye "kuita zvavanogona".

 

Dzidzisa mwana wako kushivirira

Kushivirira hakusi kushivirira, kusafinhwa, uye kukwanisa kutsungirira nechimwe chinhu chingave chinofinha zvikuru uye chinofinha. Nhabvu ndeimwe yemitambo inoedza kushivirira, iyo inogona kudzidzisa vana kuti kumhanya kwese, kudonhedza kwega kwega, kupfura kwega kwega hakubvisi zvibodzwa. Asi iwe unofanirwa kuve wakagadzirira zvese usati wapfuura nekuhwina!

Chechitatu, dzidzisa mwana wako kuremekedza uye kutarisana nekukunda nekurasikirwa

Munhandare yenhabvu, vana vanosangana nevanopikisa vakasiyana, vanozodhumhana nehupenyu hwakasiyana, kuti vazvizive zviri nani uye vazviongorore. Chechipiri, hazvina kukwana kuti vana vaone kuhwina nekukundwa kubva munhabvu chete, kuhwina nekukundwa zvine nyasha ndizvo zvinofanirwa kudzidza nevana. Hapana anofarira kunzwa kwekurasikirwa nemutambo, asi zvinonyanya kukosha, maitiro ekurasikirwa nenyasha. Kazhinji zvakaoma kudzidza chero chinhu patinokunda, uye kana takundwa, tinogona kugara tichifunga nezvekuita zvirinani nguva inotevera.

Chechina, dzidzisa vana matauriro

Kukurukurirana inzira yekufambisa uye kudzoreredza pfungwa nemanzwiro pakati pevanhu, pakati pevanhu nemapoka, kuti vasvike pakubvumirana pane pfungwa uye manzwiro akatsetseka. Nhabvu ndiyo inonyanya kutsamira pamitambo yakabatana, unofanirwa kutaurirana nemurairidzi, uye vatambi vechikwata, uye kunyangwe maitiro ekuita nemuridzi. Nhandare yenhabvu sekunge hupenyu nzanga, vimba nemunhu akatemerwa kusanyemwerera kusvika kumagumo.

Cheshanu, dzidzisa vana kuomerera pakutenda

Omerera kune zvavanotenda uye maitiro ekubata nevanhu uye zvavanotenda. Zvitendero vanhu mune imwe nzwisiso yehwaro hweimwe ideological dzidziso, dzidziso uye zvibodzwa zvakabatwa nepfungwa isingazununguki uye kutendiswa kwechokwadi uye kwakasimba kuita kwemaitiro. Nhabvu inoita kuti mwana aone kuti kana akaita chitsidzo, saka zvakakosha kuti aende kumitambo yese. Kwete chete nekuti isu takabhadhara zvirongwa izvi, asi zvinonyanya kukosha: kutsungirira uye kutarisa kumwana chidzidzo chakakosha zvakanyanya muhupenyu hwake.

 

 

 

Dzidzisa mwana wako kushanda pamwe chete

Kushandira pamwe mweya wekushandira pamwe nekuzvidira uye kushanda nesimba kunooneka kana boka rikaita chiitiko chakatemwa. Unyanzvi hwekupasa nekumhanya hwenhabvu hunobvumira vana kunzwisisa zvakadzama kukosha kwekushanda pamwe chete. Hapana kubudirira kunogona kuwanikwa pasina kushanda pamwe nekubatana kwepedyo.

Rega vana vataure tsika dzakaipa

Nhabvu inorovedzera zvese zvikamu zvekugona kwemwana wako, uye zvakanyanya kukosha, zvinovatendera kushandisa zvakanyanya nguva yavo yekuzorora. Kana mwana wako asina chekuita, kutarisa kumutambo hakuregi kuenda, nhabvu ichava "yananiso" yehupenyu hwakanakisa.

 

 

Sere, vandudza njere dzemwana

Muono (insight) zvinoreva kugona kupinda muzvinhu kana matambudziko, kugona kunyatsoona hunhu hwemunhu kuburikidza nepamusoro pezviitiko. Mumashoko aFreud, njere ndeyokushandura chiziviso mukuziva, ndiko kudzidza kushandisa misimboti uye maonero epfungwa kupfupikisa maitiro evanhu, chinhu chiri nyore kuita ndechekutarisa mazwi, kutarisa ruvara. Muchokwadi, njere dzakanyanya kusanganiswa nekugona kuongorora uye kutonga, zvinogona kutaurwa kuti njere kugona kwakadzama. Mukudzidziswa nhabvu, vana vanoisa pfungwa dzavo pamaitiro akarongwa nemurairidzi, mweya wavo wemakwikwi, uye vachakudziridza kusimba kwavo nekusimba mushure mekusangana nezvipingamupinyi nekukundikana, kuti vadzidze kusakanda mapfumo pasi.
Nhabvu ndiyo mutambo wakanakisa kusimudzira ruzivo rwemitambo yevana, kufarira kwemitambo, tsika dzemitambo nemhando yemitambo yakazara panguva yakaoma yebudiriro, nhabvu ine basa rakakosha mukukura kwevana.

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