Uko atangira gukina umupira w'amaguru kare, niko ashobora kubona inyungu nyinshi!
Kuki ari byiza kwiga siporo (umupira w'amaguru) ukiri muto? Kubera ko hagati y'imyaka 3 na 6, uburyo bwo kongerera ubushobozi bwo gutekereza mu bwonko bw'umwana buba buri mu mwanya ufunguye, bivuze ko iki ari igihe cyo kwigira mu buryo bworoshye aho kwigira mu buryo bworoshye. Urugero, bigana ababyeyi babo, abantu babakikije, ibiganiro bya televiziyo, n'ibindi, kandi binyuze mu kwitegereza no kwigana, bakura mu buzima bwabo bwa mbere mu buryo bwo kwigana.
Ariko, uko umubiri ukiri muto ni ko uba umeze neza, iyo umubiri utaragera ku rwego rwo kwiga cyangwa ubushobozi bwo gutekereza butarafunguka, ntabwo bikwiye guhabwa imyitozo myinshi y’umupira w’amaguru w’umwuga. Imyaka myiza yo gutangira ni nko hagati y’imyaka 4 cyangwa 5, iyo umubiri uba ukwiriye kwiga siporo (umupira w’amaguru).
Hari ibyiza byinshi byo gutangira umupira w'amaguru hakiri kare, nko kongera iterambere ry'ubwonko, kongera ubushobozi bwo kubona umubiri, guhuza imikorere n'ubushobozi bwo gukora, kunoza imico y'umwana, no kwiga kubaha bagenzi be no kumva ko ari inshuti, n'ibindi byiza byinshi.
Abana bakina umupira w'amaguru bishimye
Imyitozo ngororamubiri ituma umubiri ubasha kurwanya indwara, kandi imyitozo ngororamubiri yo hanze yongera imbaraga mu gukora Vitamine D, ibi bikaba birinda amaso y'abana bato. Yongera kandi umuvuduko w'imikorere y'umubiri kandi igatuma umubiri ukura kuri santimetero 2-3.
Igihe cyo kuva ku myaka 3 kugeza kuri 6 ni igihe ubwonko bw'umwana muto bufunguka, kikaba ari cyo gihe cyiza cyo kwakira ubumenyi mu buryo busanzwe, naho igihe cyo gutangira umupira w'amaguru kiri hagati y'imyaka 4-6, binyuze mu myitozo y'umupira w'amaguru, umwana muto ashobora kubona inyungu zituruka ku buhanga mu mupira w'amaguru, ubuhanga bwo kunoza imikorere, no guhuza ubushobozi bw'ubwonko n'amaboko kugira ngo ubwo bushobozi burusheho kwiyongera.
Umupira w'amaguru ni wo musaruro wuzuye w’umubiri kurusha indi mikino yose, mu buryo bwiza bwo kwiga umupira w'amaguru, binyuze mu maboko n'ibirenge, kwiruka no gusimbuka, hamwe n'ibikoresho bitandukanye bya siporo munsi y'imikorere y'uburyo umubiri ubyitwaramo, kugira ngo ubwonko burusheho gukura vuba, ugereranije imikino isanzwe n'imikino idakunze kugaragara abana bakuze, akenshi siporo igaragara mu mubiri, umuvuduko w'imyitwarire, umuvuduko wo gutekereza n'ibindi bice bya nyuma birushaho gukomera.
Buri gihe bivugwa ko abana badakwiye gushyirwa munsi y'igitutu cyo hanze cyangwa ngo bahatwe gukurikira umupira, ahubwo bagomba kugerageza kujyana n'umukino kandi bakareka umutoza akaba ari we utanga ubuyobozi bujyanye n'imikurire n'iterambere ry'abana. Ariko se ni iki cyakorwa?
Mu by'ukuri, mu maso y'abana, umupira w'amaguru ni umupira w'amaguru, ni umukino. Ikintu cyiza kuri wo niubunararibonye bwo gukina umupira w'amaguru, kwiruka ku kibuga cy’icyatsi kibisi hamwe n’inshuti zawe, bishimishije cyane kubitekerezaho nubwo waba ushaje. Kuki ubu bunararibonye bwiza bwo mu bwana budashobora gukomeza? Ese twebwe abantu bakuru tudashobora kubona uburyo bwo gusohoza ibyifuzo byoroshye by’abana? Kuki tudashobora gushimangira ubunararibonye bwiza bwo gukina umupira w’amaguru binyuze mu mbaraga zacu, ishimwe ryacu, inkunga yacu? Imyitwarire y’abantu bakuru, cyane cyane abatoza b’abana b’umupira w’amaguru, ishobora kugira ingaruka no guhindura ubuzima bw’umwana, ndetse no gushinga umupira w’amaguru mu mutima w’umwana, bigatuma uba umukino w’ubuzima bwe bwose uko akura, amaze gukura, ndetse no mu myaka ye y’izabukuru.
Turashaka kubaha inama zo kubafasha mu bijyanye n'imyitozo n'imikurire y'abana banyu kugira ngo babafashe mu buryo bworoshye.
● Kuki utavuga ibyo abana bakunda kuvuga? Koresha amagambo n'interuro abana bakunda kuvuga, kandi ukoreshe amashusho meza kugira ngo werekane icyo ugamije, maze abana barusheho gusobanukirwa!
Kuki utaganira na buri mwana ku giti cye? Waba ushaka kumunenga cyangwa kumushima, muhamagare umuganirize ku giti cye ku bitekerezo byawe n'ibitekerezo byawe.
● Kuki utaba umunyampuhwe? Gerageza kwihangana, tekereza ko wigeze kuba umwana, maze wishyire mu mwanya w'umwana wawe.
●Kuki utamukomeza ukoresheje urukundo rwawe, ishimwe ryawe n'inkunga yawe?
● Ntiwibagirwe gutanga ubuyobozi n'ubugororangingo ku buryo bufatika, kandi uherekeza imyitozo y'umwana wawe, imyigire ye n'imikurire ye mu buryo bufasha!
● Komeza gusesengura! Menya amakosa abana bakunze gukora kandi umenye kandi ushimire imyitwarire myiza.
● Kuki utabaganiriza ku kibazo bafite? Ushobora kubaza ibibazo byihariye bireba umwana wawe no gukorana na we kugira ngo ubone ibisubizo by'ibibazo bye.
Batoza b'umupira w'amaguru, ndakwinginze ntugahagarare ku ruhande uvuza induru kandi utuka abana! Mbere na mbere, ugomba kumenya ko kurakara ntacyo bitwaye. Icya kabiri, wishyire mu mwanya w'abana. Ese ntibashaka gutsinda ibitego no gutsinda imikino?
Nta mpamvu yo kuvugurura amayeri yose akorwa mu myitozo y'umupira w'amaguru ku bana. Ahubwo, ushobora kugerageza guha abana inama zoroshye kandi z'ibanze zo guhindura imyitwarire yabo yo gutera imigeri mu cyerekezo cyiza. Ushobora kuvuga uti: “Tom, gerageza gutera umupira wacu utari kure gato!” Hanyuma, ushobora kwereka abana ibintu nk'ibyo kugira ngo imyitozo yawe n'imyitwarire yawe yo kwigisha bigire ishingiro.
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Igihe cyo kohereza: Ugushyingo-15-2024
