Shankly, mmodzi wa makosi akuluakulu m'mbiri ya Liverpool, adanenapo kuti: "Mpikisano wa mpira ulibe kanthu kochita ndi moyo ndi imfa, koma kupitirira moyo ndi imfa", m'kupita kwa nthawi, zinthu ndi zosiyana, koma mawu anzeru awa adathiriridwa m'mitima, mwinamwake ili ndilo dziko lokongola la mpira. Mpira umaphunzitsa ana kuposa momwe timadziwira!
Choyamba, phunzitsani ana kumvetsa mzimu wa masewera
Mpikisano wa mpira ndi mzimu wa timu, gawo la gulu ngati pali timu yabwino komanso mzimu wabwino wa timu, zidzakhala ngati mlandu wa nyanga, kulimbikitsa anthu okwera, kulimbikitsa membala aliyense wa timu kuti apite patsogolo, kuyesetsa kukhala woyamba, kupanga mpweya wabwino wampikisano. Team mzimu ndi gulu la kugwirizana gulu la mbendera, ngati palibe mgwirizano, cholinga n'zomveka, gulu mawonekedwe si synergy, komanso akhoza kukhala pa chuma phiri kubwerera opanda kanthu. Mitambo yakale: zinthu zinasonkhanitsidwa, anthu amagawidwa m'magulu. Chigawo cha mgwirizano wamagulu ndi mzimu wabwino wamagulu uli ngati mbendera yowuluka kwambiri, imayitana membala aliyense wa gululo mwachidziwitso chosonkhanitsidwa pansi pa mbendera, kuti akwaniritse cholinga chimodzi cha gulu ndikugwira ntchito mwakhama!
Mpira uphunzitsa ana kutsata malamulo amasewera komanso kumvera makochi ndi osewera. Kupambana kapena kuluza ndi chachiwiri pakudziwa mzimu wamasewera komanso kuphunzira kuthana ndi vuto lililonse moyenera ndiye wopambana weniweni. M'malo mwake, sitiyembekezera kuti ana azikhala angwiro kapena kupambana masewera, koma kuti akwaniritse zomwe angathe pakuphunzitsidwa. Kumvetsetsa kusiyana pakati pa "kungosewera" ndi "kuchita zomwe angathe".
Phunzitsani mwana wanu kuleza mtima
Kuleza mtima sikuli kukhala wosaleza mtima, kusatopa, ndi kukhala wokhoza kupirira ndi chinthu chimene chingakhale chotopetsa ndi chotopetsa. Mpira ndi amodzi mwa masewera oyesa kuleza mtima kwambiri, omwe angaphunzitse ana kuti kuthamanga kulikonse, kuthamanga kulikonse, kuwombera kulikonse sikubweretsa chigoli. Koma muyenera kukhala okonzekera zonse musanadutse kuti mupambane!
Chachitatu, phunzitsani mwana wanu kulemekeza ndi kulimbana ndi kupambana ndi kuluza
Pabwalo la mpira, ana amakumana ndi otsutsa osiyanasiyana, adzawombana ndi moyo wosiyana, kuti adzizindikire bwino ndikudziyesa okha. Chachiwiri, sikokwanira kuti ana apindule ndi kuluza chabe kuchokera ku mpira, momwe angapambane ndikuluza mwachisomo ndi zomwe ana ayenera kuphunzira. Palibe amene amakonda kumverera kwa kutaya masewera, koma chofunika kwambiri, momwe mungataye mwachisomo. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kuphunzira chilichonse tikapambana, ndipo tikagonja, timatha kuganizira momwe tingachitire bwino nthawi ina.
Chachinayi, phunzitsani ana kulankhulana
Kulankhulana ndi njira yosinthira ndikubwezeretsa malingaliro ndi malingaliro pakati pa anthu, pakati pa anthu ndi magulu, kuti mugwirizane pamalingaliro ndi malingaliro osalala. Mpira umadalira kwambiri masewera agulu, muyenera kulumikizana ndi mphunzitsi, ndi anzanu, komanso momwe mungachitire ndi woweruza. Bwalo la mpira ngati gulu la moyo, dalirani munthu woti asamwetulire mpaka kumapeto.
Chachisanu, phunzitsani ana kumamatira ku chikhulupiriro
Tsatirani zikhulupiriro zawo ndi momwe amachitira ndi anthu ndi zikhulupiriro. Zikhulupiriro ndi anthu mu kumvetsetsa kwinakwake pa maziko a chiphunzitso china chamalingaliro, chiphunzitso ndi zolinga zomwe zimagwiridwa ndi lingaliro losagwedezeka ndi kukhudzika kowona ndi kukhazikitsidwa kokhazikika kwa maganizo. Mpira umapangitsa mwana kuzindikira kuti ngati wadzipereka, ndiye kuti ndikofunikira kwambiri kupezekapo pamasewera aliwonse. Osati kokha chifukwa talipira mapulogalamuwa, koma chofunika kwambiri: kupirira ndi kuika maganizo pa mwana ndi phunziro lofunika kwambiri pa moyo wake.
Phunzitsani mwana wanu ntchito yamagulu
Kugwirira ntchito limodzi ndi mzimu wogwirizana mwaufulu ndi khama limene limaonekera gulu likachita chochitika china. Maluso odutsa ndi kuthamanga a mpira amalola ana kumvetsetsa mozama kufunikira kwa ntchito yamagulu. Palibe chipambano chomwe chingapezeke popanda kugwira ntchito mogwira mtima komanso kogwirizana.
Aloleni ana atsanzike ndi zizolowezi zoipa
Mpira umachita mbali zonse za luso la mwana wanu, ndipo koposa zonse, zimawathandiza kuti azigwiritsa ntchito bwino nthawi yawo yopuma. Mwana wanu akakhala kuti alibe chochita, kuyang'ana masewerawo sikulola, mpira udzakhala "chiyanjanitso" chabwino kwambiri cha moyo.
Chachisanu ndi chitatu, onjezerani nzeru za mwanayo
Kuzindikira kumatanthawuza kutha kulowa muzinthu kapena zovuta, ndikutha kudziwa bwino zomwe munthu ali nazo kudzera muzochitika zapamtunda. M'mawu a Freud, kuzindikira ndikusintha chidziwitso kukhala chidziwitso, ndikuphunzira kugwiritsa ntchito mfundo ndi malingaliro a psychology kuti afotokoze mwachidule khalidwe laumunthu, chinthu chophweka ndicho kuchita ndi kuyang'ana mawu, kuyang'ana mtundu. M'malo mwake, kuzindikira kumakhala kosakanikirana kwambiri ndi luso losanthula ndi kuweruza, tinganene kuti kuzindikira ndi luso lathunthu. Pa maphunziro a mpira, ana amaika maganizo awo pa njira zomwe mphunzitsi amakonza, mzimu wawo wampikisano, ndipo adzakulitsa mphamvu zawo ndi kulimba mtima pambuyo pokumana ndi zolepheretsa ndi zolephera, kuti athe kuphunzira kuti asataye mtima.
Mpira ndiye masewera abwino kwambiri okulitsa kuzindikira kwamasewera a ana, chidwi pamasewera, zizolowezi zamasewera komanso masewera olimbitsa thupi munthawi yovuta kwambiri yachitukuko, mpira uli ndi gawo lofunikira kwambiri pakukula kwa ana.
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Nthawi yotumiza: Aug-30-2024
