I kī a Shankly, tētahi o ngā kaiako tino nui o te hītori o Liverpool: "Kāore he pānga o te whutupaoro ki te ora me te mate, engari ki tua atu i te ora me te mate", i te huringa o te wā, he rerekē ngā mea, engari kua whakamakukuhia tēnei kīwaha whakaaro nui ki roto i te ngākau, koinei pea te ao kanapa o te whutupaoro. He nui atu ngā mea e akohia ana e te whutupaoro i ngā tamariki i tā tātou e mōhio ana!
Tuatahi, whakaakona ngā tamariki kia mārama ki te wairua o ngā hākinakina
He wairua kapa te wairua whutupaoro, he wāhanga o te rōpū. Mēnā he pai te tīma, he pai hoki te wairua kapa, ka rite ki te tangi o te pū, e akiaki ana i te tangata ki runga, e whakahihiri ana i ia mema o te tīma kia anga whakamua, e whai ana kia noho tuatahi, e hanga ana i tētahi āhuarangi whakataetae pai. He wāhanga anō hoki o te kotahitanga rōpū o te haki te wairua kapa, ki te kore he kotahitanga, he mārama te whāinga, ehara te āhua o te rōpū i te mahi tahi, engari ka taea hoki te noho noa i runga i te maunga taonga me te hoki kau mai. Ngā kapua tawhito: he mea kua huihui, he tangata kua wehea ki ngā rōpū. He rite te wāhanga o te kotahitanga rōpū me te wairua kapa pai ki tētahi haki e rere teitei ana, e karanga ana i ia mema o te tīma kia huihui ā-hinengaro i raro i te haki, kia tutuki ai te whāinga whānui o te tīma, kia kaha ai te mahi!
Mā te whutupaoro ngā tamariki e ako ki te pupuri i ngā ture o te kēmu, me te whakarongo ki ngā kaiako me ngā kaiwhakawa. Ko te toa, ko te hinga rānei, he mea tuarua ki te mōhio ki te wairua o te hākinakina, ā, ko te ako ki te tūtaki pai ki ngā wero katoa te toa tūturu. Inaa, kāore mātou e tumanako kia tino tika, kia toa rānei ngā tamariki i ngā kēmu, engari kia eke ki tō rātou pūmanawa katoa mā te whakangungu. Kia mārama ki te rerekētanga i waenga i te "tākaro noa" me te "mahi i tā rātou mea pai rawa atu".
Whakaakona te manawanui o tāu tamaiti
Ko te manawanui ehara i te mea ko te kore manawanui, te kore hoha, me te kaha ki te u tonu ki tētahi mea e tino hoha ana, e tino hoha ana hoki. Ko te whutupaoro tētahi o ngā hākinakina tino whakamātautau i te manawanui, e taea ai te ako i ngā tamariki kāore ia oma, ia taraiwa, ia whiu e arahi ki te kaute. Engari me rite koe mō ēnei mea katoa i mua i te pakaru ki te wikitoria!
Tuatoru, whakaakona tāu tamaiti ki te whakaute me te aro atu ki te wikitoria me te hinganga.
I runga i te papa whutupaoro, ka tūtaki ngā tamariki ki ngā hoa whawhai rerekē, ka tukinga ki ngā momo oranga rerekē, kia pai ake ai te mōhio ki a rātou anō me te tirotiro i a rātou anō. Tuarua, kāore e ranea mā ngā tamariki te wheako i te wikitoria me te hinganga mai i te whutupaoro anake, ko te ako me pēhea te wikitoria me te hinganga me te ataahua te mea e tika ana kia akohia e ngā tamariki. Kāore he tangata e pai ki te ahua o te hinganga i roto i te kēmu, engari ko te mea nui ake, me pēhea te hinganga me te ataahua. He uaua te ako i tetahi mea ina toa tātou, ā, ina hinga tātou, ka taea tonu e tātou te whakaaro me pēhea te mahi pai ake i te wā e whai ake nei.
Tuawhā, whakaako i ngā tamariki ki te kōrero
Ko te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero te tukanga whakawhiti whakaaro me te whakahoki i ngā kare ā-roto i waenganui i te tangata, i waenganui i te tangata me ngā rōpū, kia tau ai te whakaae ki ngā whakaaro me ngā kare ā-roto mārie. Ko te whutupaoro te hākinakina e tino whakawhirinaki ana ki te mahi tahi, me kōrero koe ki te kaiako, ki ngā hoa kapa, tae atu ki te āhua o te mahi ki te kaiwhakawa. Ko te papa whutupaoro me te mea he oranga hapori, e whakawhirinaki ana ki tētahi tangata kua whakaritea kia kaua e menemene tae noa ki te mutunga.
Tuarima, whakaakona ngā tamariki kia piri ki te whakapono
E piri ana ki ō rātou ake whakapono me te momo mahi tahi me te tangata me ngā whakapono. Ko ngā whakapono he tāngata kei roto i tētahi māramatanga ki te pūtake o tētahi ariā, kaupapa me ngā wawata motuhake e puritia ana e te ariā pumau me te whakapono pono me te whakatinanatanga pakari o te waiaro. Mā te whutupaoro ka mōhio te tamaiti mēnā kua oti i a ia te whakarite, he mea tino nui te haere ki ngā whakangungu katoa. Ehara i te mea nā te mea kua utua e tātou ēnei kaupapa anake, engari he mea nui ake: ko te manawanui me te arotahi mō te tamaiti he akoranga tino nui i roto i tōna ao.
Whakaakona tāu tamaiti ki te mahi tahi
Ko te mahi tahi te wairua o te mahi tahi ā-ringa me te whakapau kaha e kitea ana ina tutuki i te tīma tētahi kaupapa kua whakaritea. Mā ngā pūkenga tuku me te oma o te whutupaoro ka taea e ngā tamariki te mārama hohonu ki te hiranga o te mahi tahi. Kāore e taea te angitu me te kore he mahi tahi whai hua, piripono hoki.
Tukua ngā tamariki kia poroporoaki ki ngā whanonga kino
Ka whakakorikori te whutupaoro i ngā āhuatanga katoa o te kaha o tāu tamaiti, ā, ko te mea nui, ka taea e ia te whakamahi pai i tōna wā waatea. Ina kore he mahi a tāu tamaiti, mā te titiro noa ki te kēmu e kore e tukua kia haere, ko te whutupaoro te "whakahoutanga" pai rawa atu o te ao.
Tuawaru, whakapai ake i te māramatanga o te tamaiti
Ko te māramatanga e pā ana ki te kaha ki te uru ki roto i ngā mea, i ngā raruraru rānei, ko te kaha ki te whakatau tika i te mauri o te tangata mā roto i ngā āhuatanga o te mata. E ai ki a Freud, ko te māramatanga ko te huri i te kore mohio ki te mohio, ko te ako ki te whakamahi i ngā mātāpono me ngā tirohanga o te hinengaro hei whakarāpopoto i ngā whanonga tangata, ko te mea māmā ko te titiro ki ngā kupu, te titiro ki te tae. Inaa, ko te māramatanga he mea whakaranu ki te kaha ki te tātari me te whakatau, ka taea te kī he pūkenga whānui te māramatanga. I roto i te whakangungu whutupaoro, ka arotahi ngā tamariki ki ngā rautaki kua whakaritea e te kaiako, ki tō rātou wairua whakataetae, ā, ka whakawhanake i tō rātou pakari me te manawanui i muri i te tūtaki ki ngā hinganga me ngā hinganga, kia taea ai e rātou te ako kia kaua e ngenge.
Ko te whutupaoro te hākinakina pai rawa atu hei whakawhanake i te mōhiotanga hākinakina o ngā tamariki, te hiahia hākinakina, ngā whanonga hākinakina me te kounga hākinakina whānui i te wā tino nui o te whanaketanga, he mea nui te whutupaoro ki te tipu o ngā tamariki.
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Wā tuku: 30 o Ākuhata 2024
